Death notices via IM
Published by Siddiq Bello October 11th, 2007 in Conjecture.I never met him. Our relationship was conducted totally via email and IM. Everything I knew about him and his life i learned through a little white box with a blue border made by the good folks at Cerulean Studios. He built one of the earliest prototype’s for SSP #1 and gave me guidance on where it would have issues in future development. Last night, when I IM’ed him to say hello and ask about his future availability, it was a shock when I got this IM back: “Hello, this is Ragu’s wife, Ragu died on 8th September.”
What do you say? There is nothing you can type that “sounds” even remotely kind and caring enough. So I typed nothing, said nothing, just quietly slithered off-line…
The social parts of interacting online are so very limited and limiting. This reminded me that true social interaction could never occur over a network. Feelings, interaction, context and experience cant be computer mediated.
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Wow - very sorry to hear of the death and the way you you were informed
Something i read & believed the virtual world transforming our real world….
http://mohanshivani.blogspot.com/2007/10/more-time.html